Sunday, April 17, 2016

Am I High Maintenance?



I like to think that I am a simple girl, of simple means.  I don't I require too much.  The first thing I look in a person is his teeth.  It's a turn off to see someone with broken blackened teeth.  I can't imagine kissing a person like that.  I know I may be overlooking someone who has a wonderful heart, but still,  I can't be with someone who has a nasty smile.  
The second thing I look at is the eyes.  Are they warm and inviting of conversation, or are they cold and distant?  I don't think it's asking too much of the person with whom I am speaking to look me in the eye. 
Other than that, I don't think I'm too hard to please.  I'm only 5'3" so it shouldn't be hard to find someone taller than me.  I would like him to be employed, hopefully with a well paying job.  If not well paying, at least have good benefits.  I know that I am on disability right now, and probably shouldn't say anything about it.  But the fact is this, I can be broke all by myself.  I don't need a lot of money, but jeepers, have something!
I would like him to be fairly good-looking.  His body does not have to be perfect, goodness knows mine is not. Nor does he have to have a head of full and luxurious hair.  I have become attracted to bald men.  He could have dreadlocks too, I like that. 
I like simple things. I prefer silver to gold, daisies to roses, and walks in the woods as opposed to expensive getaways.  I prefer to stay home and read a good book than go to the club.  I have never been comfortable in clubs.  The music was fine, but it always looked to me that people were trying to force themselves to have a good time. I like watching movies and old TV shows.  For example, I like I Love Lucy, The Mary Tyler Moore Show, and the Jeffersons.  My favorite game show is Family Feud.  I think Steve Harvey is hilarious.  But I used to watch it when it first came out, when Richard Dawson was the host.  I have DVDs of Doris Day movies, a couple of Astaire, and Marilyn Monroe movies.  I also have all the episodes of the Flintstones.  I watch football, golf, and tennis.  I can't stand the squeaking in basketball, and never understood the thrill of baseball. 
I like sitting in the sand with the sun on my face.  I like walking along the rivers edge.  I love rain storms, and snow storms.  I guess I just enjoy doing things that encourage cuddling.  Other interests include a love of animals.  I know how to groom a horse and cut a dog's nails. I like to write. I have a few journals. All of them are half full, because I put it away, then forget where I put it.
I am not the woman for a man who likes stiletto heels.  I was in a car accident that broke my right leg and ankle in several places.  I have plates, pins and screws holding everything together.  Me in heels is not pretty.  I'd rather wear my sneakers with Snoopy and Woodstock on them anyway. They're way cuter than any high heel.  I wear sweaters and sweatshirts, don't show a lot of cleavage, and my hair is cut short.  I can grow it out, but who has the time for all that? 
So, to answer my own question, I am not high maintenance. I just need someone who needs me, and will make me a priority in his life after Christ.  Oh, and just to mention, I do like diamonds but I like my birthstone better, it's a peridot.  Love, Joy, Peace
Bev

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