Okay, so it's been a week or so since I went back on the dating website. All I can say is, man oh man, what a bunch of creeps!! Don't get me wrong, there are some nice looking guys out there, but most of them are well, let's just say they leave a lot to be desired.
I'm stunned by the number of men that take pictures of themselves in public restrooms. I don't want to see you standing in front of the urinals! I mean really, let's try to find an attractive background fellas!
Then there are the guy with their brightly colored church clothes. You know the ones, where the suit is like, chartreuse and they have shoes to match. I don't mean to criticize, but I don't don't want a pimp either.
Then, you have the big gold chains, the guys that think looking mean is sexy, and the ones missing teeth. This is what I have to choose from in my age group? Why can't I connect with a nice looking guy in his 50's that has a good job, grown kids, has all his teeth, and dresses like it's 2021? I don't think it's too much to ask.
I've had a few guys ask me why I'm single? If I knew the answer, I wouldn't be. I mean, duh!!! They wanted to know why I don't have kids. I have had to explain that I wanted to be married to have a family. I didn't want a baby daddy, I wanted a husband. That seems to surprise a lot of people. I don't know why. Doesn't anybody have morals anymore?
One guy, came out and asked me if there was something wrong with me. He wanted to know if I was crazy. I nearly fell out of my chair, I was laughing so much. I didn't answer him of course. I just blocked him, and kept it moving.
Also, lest I forget, there was a supposed orthopaedic surgeon on the site, who claimed he was currently in Yemen!! Stated he was divorced, had 2 kids in boarding school in Canada. I heard the Nigerian accent over the computer!! Scam artist! So, I blocked him. There was another guy from California, who was a scammer too.
I don't mind a guy being from a foreign country, but when they start laying a load of bullshit down right away, my siren goes off. Nobody falls in love over a text message. And when they refuse to call you, you have to wonder why. Not that I tried to get either one to call me. I spotted the love scam right away.
I did start talking to one guy, though. I'll call him D. Anyway, he seems nice. His spelling isn't to great, which is a turn off for me, but we've had a couple of nice texting chats. I didn't tell him too much of anything about myself. But, he unloaded a bunch of stuff.
For instance, he just got out of prison in December 2020 after serving 26 years!!!! He was in for manslaughter. He said he was playing with a gun, and accidentally killed his friend. I'm just like, holy Jesus H Christ!!!! He told me he was out on parole, and was in a halfway house.
I promptly told him, that I could not date a man in that situation. I have nothing against ex-convicts, being as my brother did time, but I'm not dating one that fresh out of the yard. Anyway, I apologized, and told him that us being a couple is not possible, but we could still chat and be friends as he seems like a nice guy. So, we are texting. He asked if he could call me. I said I guess and told him to call me later today.
I think it's only fair that someone befriend him and give him an ear. But, I will not encourage him at all, and I'll be damned if I tell him where I live. After all, I have no real proof it wasn't murder not manslaughter. Oh well, I won't tell anyone just yet, we'll see how it goes when I talk to him.
I think I'll reach out to someone else though. I really would like a boyfriend. I still haven't heard from Kevin. He just went ghost. What a dick!
You know the story The Princess and the Frog? Did they ever say how many frogs she had to kiss before finding her prince? I'm not looking for all the trappings of royalty. I'm just looking for that guy, you know, the One. I hope to find you soon. I know you don't get warts from frogs, but these frog men out here today, can give you cooties!! That's all for now - B
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