The saga continues. The Kevin Saga, that is. It's kind of like a really bad teen movie, isn't it? It's even sad because we are talking about a 60 year old man. Anyway, here it goes...
As I stated before, Friday was my sister's birthday. She really liked her gift, by the way. No, I didn't get a hug. But, she is being extremely nice to me, which I greatly appreciate. It was a nice day. Then comes the night.
I made plans for him to come over that night. I checked with the household, they were like, cool. So, I sent him a message advising that we were a go for him to come over and spend the night. So, I take a nap, take a shower, remove hair from my body, clean my room, change the sheets, set the mood, light candles. I did all things to make for a romantic evening. Midnight comes, and he is still not here. Mind you, I am looking amazing with my freshly painted nails, hair done, and lace undies.
I get a text from him at 1 am. "I just woke up. I left work and fell asleep in my car. Call me when you get this."
So, I call. He went back to sleep!! He is supposedly still at his job, and is dead tired, and can't make the drive to my house. It's a 45 minute drive. I would go to him, but I have no real clear idea of his living situation. So, he apologizes etc. I am not angry, yet. I don't say much. I'm just say, ok. I don't forgive him however.
Anyway, about a half hour later, I am seriously displeased. I send him a text telling him, although he apologized, what he did was NOT COOL. I get no sleep that night. The next day, he sends me a text saying, that he doesn't know how, but he will make it up to me. I have yet to respond.
April asks me what happened, I told her. The collective response from the household, BULLSHIT. She says she's heard them all, and with the excuse he gave, she would kick him to the curb. Erica told me, that although I've heard it before, you train people how to treat you. I know this. And I am going to practice it. As of the other night, he is no longer spending the night at my house. If he wants to spend time with me, he is going to have to MAKE the time. He can no longer just fit me into his schedule.
Anyway, I haven't heard from him. I'm not really sure if I want to. I'm not done with dating, I just want a man that acts like a mature man. He is acting like he's 30. He is not. I understand he has dreams and things he wants to do, but let's face, he's a dreamer. I was attracted to that quality in him at first, but it's wearing very, very thin.
I want a man, who can treat me like the special person I am, not just talk about it. Okay, I guess that's it. You know, even with Brad, he made time to see me, and we were just fuck buddies. I wanted more than that with Kevin. I will demand more than that. If he can't give it to me, I guess, it's out to the curb he goes.
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